Amazing experience - some questions about usage

[MisterT]

Hi there,
Some months ago I purchased one of the Prostate Massagers. I was going to the bathroom 3-4 times per night and my urine flow was definitely restricted. After 10-14 days of regular use I experienced a remarkable improvement.
I discontinued its use because I wasn’t too comfortable with discussing it with my wife. Unfortunately the problem has arisen again and so this time I did discuss it with my wife and she was very supportive so I temporarily moved into the spare bedroom for privacy.

During usage I find the sensation of having the massager inserted in my rectum isn’t at all unpleasant and could even be described as mildly pleasant. For the first couple of sessions I followed instructions completely and did I guess 60-80 sphincter contractions over and hour or so. Then on the third night I modified it a little for variation and began extending the time I held the contractions. What I noticed was that after 15-20 seconds or so I began to feel a strange pleasurable sensation in my abdomen which seemed to intensify and radiate through my entire body as I kept holding the contraction. I continued with this for some time and the pleasure waves intensified to a point I had to release the contraction and let it drop back.
Finally, after maybe an hour or so the pleasure was unbelievable and I constantly felt as if I was on the extreme edge of a powerful orgasm. Interestingly, my penis remained flaccid the whole time and I expelled a large amount of Cowper’s Fluid. Then I seemed to experience a long and powerful orgasm only to discover I hadn’t ejaculated.

I have a couple of questions…
1) Has anyone else experienced this?
2) Even though I found the whole thing a bit disconcerting at first, I continued because it seemed to me that anything that felt this good couldn’t be harmful. Could it be harmful?
3) It was so good that I’d like to make it a regular part of my sex life, so does anyone share this with their wife?

Thanks
Mister T

[Admin]

Hello MisterT
What you describe is not unusual and if done with care is a completely safe practise.

The term ‘prostate orgasm’ is used to describe the massaging of the prostate gland in order to produce a flow of seminal fluid (semen). Prostate massage can frequently result in a non-ejaculatory orgasm as you describe.

Prostate orgasm is sometimes used by urologists to treat and prevent a variety of prostate disorders such as prostatitis and BPH (Benign Prostatic Hypertrophy). Prostate orgasm is also widely used for sexual pleasure to intensify orgasm during masturbation or intercourse.

Clinical studies have found men who ejaculate by whatever means more than five four or five times per week during their twenties, may suffer from less prostate disorders such as BPH, inflammation of the prostate gland, and prostate cancer.

Prostate orgasm is now considered an aid to male health and has the potential to prevent prostate gland disorders when regular sex is not available or when a man does not wish to masturbate for personal or religious grounds.

Essentially, prostate orgasm can be a great health practice!

Enjoy,
Admin

[sarah_cope]

Hi mister T
I saw your post and thought it interesting. Theres no doubt these massagers are a double edged sword. On the one hand they help promote prostate health and on the other they can give great pleasure. I’m married and my man has been using his for about 2 years. He’s had similar problems to you and the massaging has really helped him. About a year ago he told me he was using the device when he masturbated and at first I was a bit shocked but he asked if id mind if he used it when we had sex too. I agreed and now he uses it sometimes in bed with me and I really enjoy watching him go through the stages of pleasure. If you have a loving relationship I think you should talk to your wife and let her know how good it is and how much youd like to share it with her.
good luck
Sarah

[UKoldie]

Hello MrT I understand your dilemma. I believe at this point in our lives, we need to encourage each other - especially in the area of sexuality. I had used my PS-X to help my prostate with great success and like you had discovered the wonderful ‘side effects’. I knew my wife, having being brought up very conservatively sexually, would never understand that I would want to use the PSX for pleasure.

Then a couple of years ago, I had erection issues and my cardiologist told me to accept my inability to maintain an erection – He said “that's what happens with men your age”. How wrong he was!!!

About a year-and-a-half ago, after having open heart surgery, my wife and I went a full year with out having sex. Strangely, after telling my wife about my experiences with the PSX, the massager turned out to provide a bridge for my wife and I. She had previously never understood about self pleasuring and it helped us back to intimacy again.

It really confronted her to talk openly and honestly about sex --- something we had never done before. Come to think of it, my wife knew very little about how her body worked sexually and even less about how my body worked sexually. Again, for some reason sex just wasn't and still isn't talked about amongst people our age.

As she started to accept her sexuality as a blessing to be enjoyed, she started to accept herself. After this, the doors opened wide! Before the PSX massager, MrT, I would have described my wife as having a lack of sex drive --- definitely NOT the case now! She truly enjoys playing a real part in my sexual satisfaction; and, I on the other hand truly enjoy being able to sexually satisfy my beloved.

Our life together has never been as full as it is now. Sharing our sexuality so fully as we enter our sixties is truly a wonderful experience; and, gives us something to look forward to each new day. Yes, I found satisfaction through masturbation before the PSX; but, the fullness of joy I now know is beyond comparison! Talk to your wife about it and you never know what may happen.

I’m keeping both you and your wife in my prayers.

Good luck - Jeff

[eternaltraveler]

What a wonderful story Jeff, its amazing how a little peice of plastic can bring people so close together.

[Laram]

I do not think it is harmful, but I have not experienced that before.