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[wife212]

I recently caught my husband massaging his own prostate. Should I be worried about his health or my sex life. Either way is it unsafe for him to do his self and how would one learn how to do it safely.

[fredb]

Do it for him with your finger it is safest way. you will be amazed how it will perk up your sex life. Done rite milking is good for his whole syatem.

[Wife 212]

How? I don't want to hurt him and he does not even know I know. How in would I even bring it up w/o embarrasing him? Do you think buying pro-state for him would be a better Idea. Don't get me wrong I want to be involved but I don't want to hurt his macho feelings.

[fredb]

You have e-mail

[bigboy]

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212
I recently caught my husband massaging his own prostate. Should I be worried about his health or my sex life. Either way is it unsafe for him to do his self and how would one learn how to do it safely.[EndQuote]
I use to slip around, when my wife wasn't looking and massaged my prostate. Then one night she walked into the bathroom and caught me. At first she was very upset, but we sat down and discussed it like two grown adults.

I explained that it was a natural thing and that most men enjoy the sensation. I used a comparision to show her that my p-spot was much like her g-spot.

She started reading everything she could find about the male p-spot and it wasn't long till she wanted to start experimenting. At first she used one finger, then she built it up to two.

Our problem now is that I can't get her to stop. She doesn't want regular sex, all she wants to do is stroke my p-spot. I wake up two or three times a night and she's got her fingers up in there just having a blast.

My advice to the men out there is to never let your wife know anything about your p-spot. This is a secret that should be kept between men and never shared with wives. There is something about women that makes them go wild when they learn about their husband's p-spot.

[wife212]

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: bigboy

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212
I recently caught my husband massaging his own prostate. Should I be worried about his health or my sex life. Either way is it unsafe for him to do his self and how would one learn how to do it safely.[EndQuote]
I use to slip around, when my wife wasn't looking and massaged my prostate. Then one night she walked into the bathroom and caught me. At first she was very upset, but we sat down and discussed it like two grown adults.

I explained that it was a natural thing and that most men enjoy the sensation. I used a comparision to show her that my p-spot was much like her g-spot.

She started reading everything she could find about the male p-spot and it wasn't long till she wanted to start experimenting. At first she used one finger, then she built it up to two.

Our problem now is that I can't get her to stop. She doesn't want regular sex, all she wants to do is stroke my p-spot. I wake up two or three times a night and she's got her fingers up in there just having a blast.

My advice to the men out there is to never let your wife know anything about your p-spot. This is a secret that should be kept between men and never shared with wives. There is something about women that makes them go wild when they learn about their husband's p-spot.



[EndQuote]
OK I dont know about wanting to be that involved. At first I thought maybe he was gay. Now I am doing what your wife did.The best way to do that was for me to try to talk to men who are open about this. Now I hope that he wants to do the same for me. But I don't even know what I like. I wish I could find a site to talk about this w/o being judged,this just is more for medical. I don't want to be in the way of people talking about this helpfull massager.I wish there was a Womens site just like this.

[bigboy]

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: bigboy

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212
I recently caught my husband massaging his own prostate. Should I be worried about his health or my sex life. Either way is it unsafe for him to do his self and how would one learn how to do it safely.[EndQuote]
I use to slip around, when my wife wasn't looking and massaged my prostate. Then one night she walked into the bathroom and caught me. At first she was very upset, but we sat down and discussed it like two grown adults.

I explained that it was a natural thing and that most men enjoy the sensation. I used a comparision to show her that my p-spot was much like her g-spot.

She started reading everything she could find about the male p-spot and it wasn't long till she wanted to start experimenting. At first she used one finger, then she built it up to two.

Our problem now is that I can't get her to stop. She doesn't want regular sex, all she wants to do is stroke my p-spot. I wake up two or three times a night and she's got her fingers up in there just having a blast.

My advice to the men out there is to never let your wife know anything about your p-spot. This is a secret that should be kept between men and never shared with wives. There is something about women that makes them go wild when they learn about their husband's p-spot.



[EndQuote]
OK I dont know about wanting to be that involved. At first I thought maybe he was gay. Now I am doing what your wife did.The best way to do that was for me to try to talk to men who are open about this. Now I hope that he wants to do the same for me. But I don't even know what I like. I wish I could find a site to talk about this w/o being judged,this just is more for medical. I don't want to be in the way of people talking about this helpfull massager.I wish there was a Womens site just like this.[EndQuote]
We do too.

[Bertha1]

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: bigboy

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: bigboy

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212
I recently caught my husband massaging his own prostate. Should I be worried about his health or my sex life. Either way is it unsafe for him to do his self and how would one learn how to do it safely.[EndQuote]
I use to slip around, when my wife wasn't looking and massaged my prostate. Then one night she walked into the bathroom and caught me. At first she was very upset, but we sat down and discussed it like two grown adults.

I explained that it was a natural thing and that most men enjoy the sensation. I used a comparision to show her that my p-spot was much like her g-spot.

She started reading everything she could find about the male p-spot and it wasn't long till she wanted to start experimenting. At first she used one finger, then she built it up to two.

Our problem now is that I can't get her to stop. She doesn't want regular sex, all she wants to do is stroke my p-spot. I wake up two or three times a night and she's got her fingers up in there just having a blast.

My advice to the men out there is to never let your wife know anything about your p-spot. This is a secret that should be kept between men and never shared with wives. There is something about women that makes them go wild when they learn about their husband's p-spot.



[EndQuote]
OK I dont know about wanting to be that involved. At first I thought maybe he was gay. Now I am doing what your wife did.The best way to do that was for me to try to talk to men who are open about this. Now I hope that he wants to do the same for me. But I don't even know what I like. I wish I could find a site to talk about this w/o being judged,this just is more for medical. I don't want to be in the way of people talking about this helpfull massager.I wish there was a Womens site just like this.[EndQuote]
We do too.[EndQuote]
I am just like you, when my husband started wanting me to massage his prostate I got worried about him. At first I didn't want to do it, but to keep him quiet, I did what he asked.

He had to tell me what felt good and how much pressure to use, but it wasn't long till I had him singing the high notes and talking directly to Jesus.

I have noticed a complete change in our relationship. He is much more affectionate and he has developed an interest in fixing my hair and helping me pick out my wardrobe. He has redecorated our apartment twice in the past year and his favorite thing is to go shopping.

All he use to do is sit in front of the TV and watch football and drink beer, now he has learned to knit and he's taking cooking classes.

My advice is to be open minded and to explore.

[wife212]

I want to be open. but how can I explore when I don't know where to explore! I want to talk to people about this but now I can't find ant other chat rooms that don't want my credit card #. I want advice from experienced men and women that don't know me and won't judge me.
Any ideas?

[bigboy]

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: wife212
I want to be open. but how can I explore when I don't know where to explore! I want to talk to people about this but now I can't find ant other chat rooms that don't want my credit card #. I want advice from experienced men and women that don't know me and won't judge me.
Any ideas?[EndQuote]
You are right, most of us in here feel like we know you and I hate to admit it, but we are judging you.

I have been giving it some thought and you are probably a pretty good egg, even if you do want to stick your fingers up your husband's anus. The bad thing is this can be very addictive and I worry that you will be like my wife and want to do it most of the night. This can be very difficult for your husband and if not handled properly it can make him feel cheap.

You need to think of your husband as much more than just a \"Sex Toy.\"
He needs his private time, so let him massage his prostate and try to control your wild desires to be a part of every aspect of his life.