Use of dildo for prostate massage

Discuss HIH's Pro-State prostate massagers and the health benefits of prostate massage.

Postby orlandoman » Mon Jul 11, 2005 7:39 pm

A question about dildos - does anybody use them for prostate massage? The reason I ask is that I have had moderate erectile dysfunction for several years - I'm 56 - and have been searching for a non-medicinal, natural technique that might help me improve my ability to have ejaculations (which have become more difficult to achieve while masturbating) and also keep my prostate healthy. It would also be nice if this technique involved my wife in some way because our sex life has come to a stop. Three different medications, starting with Viagra, haven't worked.

I've been pretty reluctant to suggest anything because of what she might think - that is, if I asked her to start penetrating me with a dildo, it might give her the impression that I was looking to bring some sort of gay thing into our lives. Not only that, I have no idea if this sort of role reversal would be uncomfortable for her to participate in - and I guess we'd need a second dildo or something for her.

To make things more complicated, the idea of having this done to me does have some sexual appeal. I'm basically straight and all, but the year before I met my wife (over 20 years ago), I had a short romantic relationship with a guy - though not so short that I didn't experience the benefits/pleasure of having the head of a penis massage my prostate on more than one occasion. Meanwhile, I've never entirely put these desires aside, and gay thoughts do come up now and again. I'm not sure how using a dildo would play out in our lovemaking, whether or not it would fan my bisexual flames or cause me act how gay fantasy things in our lovemaking or what, but there are some exceptionally realistic models on the market that I'm sure would replicate the prostate massage experience and perhaps benefit me greatly. Anyway, I would appreciate any input any of you might have on this. Thanks.

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Postby fred » Mon Jul 18, 2005 6:30 pm

Buy a good one made of Pyrex glass, they are smoother, sasier to clean and work well, they come in all sizes.

Postby Bailey B » Tue Jul 19, 2005 2:55 am

Ya, Know what you mean, my galfriend does me with a glass strapon and it is enjoyable.
Bailey B

Postby Analhealth » Sun Aug 07, 2005 4:44 am

I/ve used a very flexible, soft dildo with a 1" ball on one end, and a handle on the other. They're available online or at any good toy store. It provides a very strong experience. Just use lots of lube, and go slow. Eventually you'll acieve mind blowing orgasms, and crave the anal touch. Good luck!

Postby tom » Sat Sep 10, 2005 6:04 am

[B]My wife and I use a double-ended large black dildo up both of our "poop shoots" and both cream ourselves silly.[/B]

Postby tonal » Mon Sep 12, 2005 3:56 pm

After some experiments I have discovered how to use aneros in a similar way as dildo. I put aneros in place and show stick through the handle. After doing that, I kneel down above any object that lefts enough space under my scrotum (could be small tabouret). In this position I am using curved wooden stick (clothes hanger) as a lever to push the stick in the handle up rhythmically (it is more like soft striking). In this way aneros is moving a little inside-out and more forward-back. The orgasms that I achieve in this way are wonderful and with full ejaculation. As well it is possible to go all the way to orgasm very slowly but after half of hour of such a pleasure I become too horny and normally I choose to intensify the rhythm of the massage and cum. Sure I am doing this when I am not with my wife. When she is around I ask her to help me with her hand of feet sometimes.

Postby Frank Johnson » Wed Sep 28, 2005 9:38 am

[BeginQuote]Originally Posted By: Bailey B
Ya, Know what you mean, my galfriend does me with a glass strapon and it is enjoyable.[EndQuote]
Good service
Frank Johnson

Re: Use of dildo for prostate massage

Postby saulpalmetto » Wed Nov 25, 2009 8:14 pm

I feel like I am reading posts by the future stars of "Bend Over Boyfriend, Part 11". :D

I do think it is better form is to point up the medical advantages of the HIH devices, especially since this is their forum.
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Re: Use of dildo for prostate massage

Postby saulpalmetto » Sun Nov 29, 2009 7:09 am

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